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047 Choose to create the life you want | Heidi Crockett

Having a good functioning brain, a clear mind and good relationships are important to have good mental health and to reduce stress
— Heidi Crockett -

Heidi's own grief and care giver stress propelled her into studying further and she now uses a lens of Relational Neuroscience in her work. Heidi describes this as connecting brain to brain and integration being the quality of that connection. She shares her passion of how these principles can help people to cope and thrive in their lives. We explore the nature of stress from a more scientific perspective in layman’s terms yet with incredible practical application to letting go of stress in our lives and choosing to create the life you want.

Inspire yourself with these essential insights from Heidi Crockett

We spoke about 

  • Turning her own grief and stress around

  • The super computer and stress response in the body

  • Becoming aware of our own stress triggers

  • Tools and resources to calm us down

  • Why it’s important to be in balance in the wellness triangle

  • How we can use choice to let go of stress

  • Heidi’s books on optimal mental health and relationship health

  • Creating the life you want

Value Quotes 

“Relational Neuroscience helped me understand the grief and stress that I was experiencing at that time and helped me overcome my grief”

“Emotional intelligence is really about learning how to recognise when you have that stress response, when you’re having a really strong emotion… and learning how to calm that down through self-regulation”

“If we can train ourselves to become aware of our bodies, we can catch these subtle signs and change before our stress response goes super out of control”

“Over time something that’s not really that stressful can build… it’s not that something happens one time it’s usually the 86th time that it happens that people just blow up and goes out of control”

“Meditation strengthens 8 of the 9 functions of the pre-frontal cortex”

“Cultivate securely attached relationships. That improves all 9 functions of the pre-frontal cortex”

“Having a good functioning brain, a clear mind and good relationships are important to have good mental health and to reduce stress”

“If you meditate every day it is amazing with the neuroplasticity and neurogenesis, it rewires your brain. It will change your experience of reality”  

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Until next time fabulous podcast listener, I’m Bev and I invite you to live the fab life with me now! 

Episode Links 

You can find Heidi Crockett at:

Website:  http://www.greenlightheidi.com for mental health

Heidi Crockett on Living Fabulously with Bev P Q2
Heidi Crockett on Living Fabulously with Bev P Q3
9 functions of the PreFrontal cortex

043 Become your own healer | Dr Tatjana Trajkovska

Hundreds of years ago people were much more insightful, much more connected with themselves, much more in harmony and they knew how to support their body into healing
— Dr Tatjana Trajkovska -

Have you been receiving signals from your body yet due to the demands of a stressful life you aren’t aware? Imagine if you were able to stay connected to your body’s story to prevent dis-ease and live well every day with a deeper connection to yourself and others. Tatjana is a specialist in mind body medicine and works to mentor people to help them activate their inner healing potential.

Inspire yourself with these essential insights from Dr Tatjana Trajkovska

We spoke about 

  • Ignoring the signs the body was giving and the consequences

  • Defining mind body medicine and the interconnectedness

  • The value of connecting our mind, emotions and body to be in ease and balance

  • Using the breath to connect with the body and calm the mind

  • Signs and signals the body sends us to get our attention

  • The emergency ABC tool and how to use it effectively

  • Tatjana’s 4 month program to heal yourself

  • Loving yourself more

Value Quotes 

“I decided to step into another journey. A journey within to connect more with myself. With my heart, with my intuition and with my body”

“In western medicine we mostly see the body separate from the emotions”

“We are not trained how deeply our emotions, our assumptions, our mindset, our beliefs affect the way we live”

“Our body is naturally designed perfectly”

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Until next time fabulous podcast listener, I’m Bev and I invite you to live the fab life with me now! 

Episode Links 

You can find Tatjana Trajkovska at:

Website:  http://en.tatjanatrajkovska.eu/

Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/tatjanatrajkovskaeu/  

Dr Tatjana Trajkovska on LIving Fabulously with Bev podcast Q1
Dr Tatjana Trajkovska on Living Fabulously with Bev podcast Q2

031 Lighter on the scales and lighter in the heart | Caroline Silk

Women are particularly guilty of putting everyone and everything in front of themselves and leaving their health on the back burner
— Caroline Silk -

As a mindset nutritionist Caroline gets real about how our mindset affects our whole wellness journey.  We talk about creating a calmer, happier more positive mindset by working through negative emotions and limiting beliefs that stop up from being the healthiest version of ourselves.  Caroline provides really practical tips to support you on your wellness journey.

Inspire yourself with these essential insights from Caroline  

Caroline Silk

We spoke about 

  • Finding your passion vs what keeps grabbing your attention

  • Shifting to a positive mindset

  • Creating the space to change limiting beliefs

  • Positive outcomes as a result of changing our mindset

  • The benefits of mindful eating and tips to get started

  • A fabulous story of transformation without obsession over food

  • Changing the way you go to sleep and it’s quality

  • Caroline’s tips for living fabulously

Value Quotes 

“If your mindset is in a negative space and you think you can’t do this then your subconscious mind is very strong and it will say ok she doesn’t want this to happen”

“If you have a positive mindset and you say how can I do this better, this is going to happen for me, I can be a well person, I can be fit, fabulous and healthy…”

“Women are particularly guilty of putting everyone and everything in front of themselves and leaving their health on the back burner”

“Drop the emotional baggage of those big negative emotions of anger, fear, hurt, sadness and guilt”

“It always needs to be for them first… they have to want the change for themselves for it to work”

“You need to keep your mind as a quiet place as you go off to sleep”

“It’s learning how to eat mindfully that you can take with you wherever you want to go and you can do it with alcohol and your food”

“If you have a positive mindset at the beginning of each day it’s a positive way to start your day”

“Surround yourself with people who are going to bring you positive energy and they are going to support you and support your journey is enormously important” 

“Taking care of herself was an act of not only achieving dropping the weight and her business thriving but also being calmer, happier and more confident” – Bev Roberts

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I have some really exciting news I want to share with you! I will be writing my book in the first quarter of next year. Woo hoo I was accepted on the 90 day book writing course with Kathy Miles Wheeler and will be supported by the fabulous Karen Gunton, she's a coach and author of the Lighthouse Revolution.

So in order to achieve my dream of writing a non-fiction book I will be moving to fortnightly shows in 2017.

I would like to take the opportunity to thank you for being such a fabulous listener and I wish you and your loved ones a safe and happy festive season.  May joy, peace and love be yours in abundance.

Until next time fabulous podcast listener, I’m Bev and I invite you to live the fab life with me now!  

Episode Links  

You can find Caroline Silk at:

Website: http://www.carolinesilk.com

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thebalancedapproach/

You can download Caroline’s free Mindful Eating guide here: http://www.carolinesilk.com/mindful-eating-guide/

Kathy Miles Wheeler: http://www.bookwritingmagazine.com/

Karen Gunton: http://www.karengunton.com